After another two weeks, moving day had arrived yet
again. Please note, I would not be
moving around so much this trip were the apartments not booked. Both were nice places that I would have no
problem staying in again.
I caught a cab to take me to the new place. The driver struck up a conversation and I
ended up telling him how I’m trying to move to the city. And yet again, I encountered nothing but good
vibes from a local towards a future immigrant.
He advised that I choose an apartment near the center as it’s safer with
more cops around. He also asked if I’d
been anywhere else in the country. I told
him no since I have the hardest time leaving the city. I did mention to him that I wanted to visit
Durres and Saranda on the coast. He said
no, that I should first see Shkoder. He
whipped out his phone and showed me these gorgeous photos of the city that’s only
about two hours away from Tirana and on the edge of a lake. It reminded me of Montenegro which makes
perfect sense since it’s closer to there than to Tirana.
He dropped me off and, like before, it took me a minute to
figure out where the place was. There are
apartment buildings everywhere and it can be very difficult to point out the
right one. The host did send me a video
but I still couldn’t find the place.
Then I realized the red wall I was looking for had been painted white
since the video was shot. The open staircase
was right beside that.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again; you really can’t
judge an apartment by the façade. I’ll
be honest and say that a lot of Tirana is crumbling with uneven sidewalks and
missing tiles. Some of the buildings are
architectural marvels with odd shapes and interesting colors while other buildings
straight up look like they should be condemned.
The outsides are stained or cracked, the stairways are worn, and the
hallways look pretty rough. But then you
get into the apartment and it is lovely.
The water is hot with good pressure, the electricity is steady, and even
when the places are small, they are clean and tidy.
Such was the situation with the new place. Worn stairs lead
past an abandoned washing machine in the hallway and into a decent, if a little
dark, apartment. The kitchen is tiny (again),
but the shower is enclosed and the bedroom is a good size. I just had to remember to shut the blinds
before I went for a shower as I didn’t want the flash the café directly outside
the window.
Not that you couldn’t do that if you wanted to. I don’t kink shame – you do you. I’m just happy to have anyone reading my ramblings.
The entrance to the building is flanked by two grocery stores. One is pretty tiny but good for incidentals while the other is a more fully loaded store and again, mere steps away from the apartment. Tirana remains insanely convenient.
There is also a laundromat near the building. Why would I need to know that when there was
a washing machine in the apartment? Because
the machine in the unit was the same model as the one in the hallway and neither
of them worked. Sigh. I do hate laundromats. Especially when the change machine doesn’t work
and I had to scramble around for 100 leke coins. And this is why a washing machine in my new
place is not optional.
There are also a bunch of Turkish restaurants in the area and
I was so thrilled to spot Istanbul Bakery.
I excitedly ran in and ordered a simit – it has been so long. But the disappointment continues. It was too doughy and not nearly crunchy
enough. What a shame. I guess I’ll just need to go back to Istanbul
at some point (real hardship, I know).
Out of curiosity, I did look up round trip ticket prices. It costs less than $200 to fly to Türkiye from
Albania in the off season. Gotta love
that.
Speaking of disappointment, the apartment search continues
to be a bust. The lack of response from
anyone sucked all the fun out of looking.
So instead, I started to look into other avenues towards my visa.
In weeks prior, I went to the American Embassy to ask if I
needed to take any extra steps to remain in the country for a full year. They said I didn’t have to do anything more
and gave me a card with their contact info for further questions. I emailed them only to receive no response.
I checked on a visa website that said that I need to
register with an office in the city. I
walked there one day only to find that the location had moved and Google hadn’t
been updated. It was already a hot
sweaty day in August and I didn’t have the strength to make another attempt to
find the place.
Repeatedly running head-first into a brick wall is steadily
eroding my nerves. This process should
not be this difficult. I haven’t even
truly started and I am already exhausted.
My nose is bleeding and I have a headache from all the bangs against
that wall.
And then my stepmom called to tell me that my father died.
Oh.
Didn’t see that one coming.



